I'm a well read grad student who's bluntly honest about all things, although I try to be most honest about myself.
Yeah, you can. It's not a slur. Has anyone seen the episode of It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia where they debate if it's a racial slur to call someone a Jew? I used to laugh and say 'this is a conversation no one will ever have in real life.'
But, yes, they are.
So, just to clarify, Jew is not a slur. Yes, you can call me a Jew. It's only a slur if you think being Jewish is awful. Meanwhile, I love how this dude is telling Jews why the use of the word Jew to describe them is offensive :/