I'm a well read grad student who's bluntly honest about all things, although I try to be most honest about myself.
My brother wants to extend the wedding to his honey moon with us sharing pictures. Why does he think I want to hear from him, have or took pictures or anything?
I did mention all the things I'd rather do than hear from him: be chased by the DJD, be Scorponok's latest experimental subject, OD on circuit breakers, and be in Garrus 9 under Overlord. (These are the last thing anyone wants in the TF universe, FYI.) I didn't explain these things because I just was being all fandom-y and pointing out how he doesn't give a shit about me or my fandom-y things because I'm an object, not a person to him.
I don't want to hear from him, from wifey or from his wife's mother who rubbed it our nose all wedding about how she got her makeup done when we weren't invited. (Okay, no, to be fair she mentioned it a couple times after we were upset we weren't invited, but it very much felt this way to me.)
I don't want to have anything to do with them. And I've been dreading he would include me on something like this - so I'm going to go and cry my eyes out. Because this just never fucking ends, does it? Now I have to be the bitch who ruins it because they couldn't leave me alone. Me not wanting to be in the minimum of pictures didn't let him know this was not welcome?
What is wrong with some people? Some people being my brother.