I'm a well read grad student who's bluntly honest about all things, although I try to be most honest about myself.
I got laughed at for 'not knowing how to pump gas.' Well, let me tell you, lady, my car's gauge for gas was just slow but I was pretty pissed off when I got laughed at.
Then my dad sends a text that there might be a pretty large amount of fraud on the card that is communal - as in the whole family - for things that him and mom might want, but might also ask the kids to get. Emergencies, etc. It's through Venmo, which is apparently some way to send cash online.
Yeah, fraud, I think. I recommended that he contact Bank of America.