I'm a well read grad student who's bluntly honest about all things, although I try to be most honest about myself.
Me: I'm moving in with you, bro!
My brother: Um, well, you'll have to get a new apartment.
Me: ... I told you this was probably happening, and you were cool with it. WTH?
My brother: We'll talk about it.
Me: Yeah, I'll be on the couch, dude.
We all end the call and I get frustrated.
So basically I don't want to upset my mother so it's not happening. I told him to keep the fucking apartment.